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Reply to "Partner and I can't agree on a surname after marriage and now I'm wondering if marrying him is even worth it."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you also into gender norms? Did you want an engagement ring? Does he pick up the bill more often? Doe he buy you flowers? If you like gender norms traditions when they benefit you, then you have to accept ones that matter to him too. [/quote] Fair question. Not really. Our engagement was us discussing a wedding date. No proposal, no ring, no me waiting for him. I've never been traditional which is why I was shocked about his reaction. I guess we should have discussed our last names earlier.[/quote] I didn't change my last name but the wanting to have a proposal and buy a ring came more from my husband than it did from me (I wanted to get something for him so I got him a very nice watch as an engagement present). This whole grudge match bean counting thing would be a huge red flag. [/quote]
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