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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find the responses saying some people see providing food for your kid as an act of care and love and some just don't as...kind of crazy making! Not EVERY bite has to be lovingly prepared and served hot and to a kid's tastes. People who eat cold breakfasts and quick lunches themselves aren't less caring parents. They just don't see every meal as a big event.

I sometimes make veggie muffins for them to eat in the mornings, or help them pour a bowl of cereal. I don't love them any less because I don't make them pancakes, eggs, and bacon DAILY. They get cold sandwiches for school lunches. Hot breakfasts and lunches are squarely a weekend treat in my book, I was raised that way and never thought it meant my SAHM didn't love me. I was also fixing my own breakfasts by high school.

I also think OP is letting her daughter be way too precious about dinners. She thinks vegetable based meals are "disgusting," really? The dad is making what sound like home cooked and healthy meals and instead of being scolded for calling them disgusting, the dad is at fault? My kids would also love to eat pasta, pizza, and meat for dinner every night! But guess what, we often cook Asian food involving mainly tofu and vegetables, or occasionally fish. They often won't eat it, one kid won't even eat plain rice. They can have plain bread, yogurt, and fruit to keep from going hungry, or if they're lucky they can have a bowl of microwaved leftovers if there's something in the fridge, but I'm absolutely not cooking chicken because they won't eat tofu, or allowing "vegetables are disgusting" to keep us from serving vegetables. Being an athlete isn't an excuse, she's not being starved, she's just picky! [/quote]
Why would you purposely cook a dinner your children won’t eat? This is bizarre. [/quote]

I'm not doing it AT them! I'm also not going to give up rice, tofu, and vegetables for 18 years because they're picky. These are normal foods that were staples of our adult diets before kids. [/quote]

A nice big salad is a staple of my "adult diet." My elementary schooler is not going to eat a salad for dinner, he just won't. Do you think I should make salads for us, even though I know he doesn't like it? It's a normal meal, right??? [/quote]

Yes, you should keep giving your child salad. Is this a serious question?[/quote]

Yeah I'll l cut the stuff into strips (carrots, peppers, cucumbers, the lettuce ribs) into strips and let my kid dip them in ranch or hummus but I absolutely serve my first grader salad for dinner.  It's weird you wouldn't even try.

I took my kid Germany (my family lives there) and he didn't love everything he tried but he did try a bit of everything and found new things he liked.  And he's 7, not 17.[/quote]

You would serve your kid an entree salad for dinner? My kid likes plenty of other vegetables but not salad. At that age I didn't like salad either, I developed a taste for it as an adult....[/quote]

What a weird interpretation of the comment.  Of course I'm not feeding my kid just carrots and peppers for dinner.  But an adult wouldn't eat that for dinner either.  But I do serve my kid what I'm eating and there's no way I'm making my kid a separate meal every day.

I let my kid pick dinner tonight (he wants stir fry with peanut sauce).[/quote]

My first post you were replying to was specifically talking about how I like an entree salad, but I don't serve that to my kid for dinner because he doesn't like it. [/quote]

I mean if you're just eating a bowl of lettuce that's a weird entree.  No protein.

If you have like chicken or fish on the salad I see no reason an elementary school kid can't have that for dinner.  I'd probably separate it out but that's a perfectly fine dinner dor a kid.  Chicken and veggies.[/quote]

They will be fine without a protein for one meal.  Again, the 16 year old can make herself something or mom can pack or bring food.[/quote]

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