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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Haven't you seen the videos of people post anesthesia who say offensive things? Are people really triggered and offended by those vidoes and expect apologies? Usually the people in them are laughing and not taking it personally as they understand what the person coming out of anesthesia is saying is not under their control. But most people on here seem to think those people are extremely offensive and should be apologizing for their comments and that being under sanesthetic does not give them a right to say anything inappropriate and they need to be held responsible. [/quote] I think people are used to being able to reflexively demand other people apologize. They are frustrated that it doesn't seem to work in this case.[/quote] Well, there are other options. Apologies are designed to indicate to people who you’ve hurt in some way that your intention was not to hurt them. Most sincere apologies are met with forgiveness. Without an apology, the consequences for many behaviors are likely to be very different. So, are those of you who don’t believe that apologies are necessary advocating for the kinds of consequences that saying offensive things to people you don’t know will often provoke? If so, you probably don’t have Davidson’s long term best interests at heart. [/quote] There are people of all ages and races with coprolalia and I think the view that they owe an apology to anyone who is offended by any of their tics puts a massive burden on them. Many people tic very frequently and continuously being asked to come up with an apology for any offense each tic may have caused or offense taken by those who don't understand may not even be practically feasible. [/quote]
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