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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No we don't share, nor would I.  We very occasioally turn it on if one of us will be alone in a remote place just for safety but otherwise no. I don't need to know where he is every single second and he doesn't need to know where I am. I have zero interest in tracking him and have zero interest in being tracked. I am someone that likes privacy and wouldn't be with someone who needed to be able to check on me 24/7 and [b]know where I was at all times. [/b]

And if my teen daugher told me that her boyfriend wanted to track her and needed to know where she is at all times, I would not tell her oh that is so sweet and loving, he just clearly cares about you so much. I would tell her to run. [/quote]

I find this so odd given that I have kids. Why wouldn't you want your spouse (or your child) to know where you are? Do you literally just leave the house and say I'll be back in 4 hours but I'm not telling you where I'm going?[/quote]

If your spouse wants to know they can ask, rather than spy on you. [/quote]

Mileage varies. Before we shared locations, I really disliked when I'd be driving and I had to fish out my phone because my wife was calling to ask how long until I'd be home. I much prefer that she's able to just see my location without me having to interact with that particular process. [/quote]

OP here. This is *exactly* why I wanted him to share it! I don’t understand what he doesn’t get about this.

I said, when I text you to find out where you are, “I feel like I am bothering you.” And he said, “you’re not and don’t I always pick up/respond promptly?” And I said “yes which is why I didn’t think this would be a big deal to you.” I thought it was an exchange of information to make life simpler and easier. I really didn’t think he was out doing shady stuff but now I am at least suspicious.

To the posters asking, I do have his passcode and he did end up sharing the location with me.[/quote]
Didn't you say you disabled it? [/quote]

He sent it again and convinced me not to. So it’s on now.[/quote]

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