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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was 34 and he was 50. Happily married, 2 grown children, 64 and 80. Sometimes it works.[/quote]

[b]You were 34, kind of the age when women run out of options to marry promising men their own age group. [/b]OP is 27, she has a few years to find somone under 35 to marry  [/quote]
This is utter BS.[/quote]

Not really. OP has a lot of options. 20 years and older kids is really a lot of baggage she doesn’t need. [/quote]
? I'm not saying OP should have kids with a man 20 years older ( I have posted on here that OP shouldn't do it), but a woman who is 34 is not out out of options for the dating pool.  I wouldn't want to date a  man who is only interested in women under 30, even when I was under 30.  It speaks to their desire for only seeing the woman as a baby maker, or they want  to be controlling.  This reeks of conservative men who think women should submit to their husbands.

I ended up marrying a man seven years older, but I was 30+ when we started dating, and he definitely wasn't seeking a baby maker or to control me.[/quote]

So we are recommend OP to do what you did. She can marry a man 7 years older and date men her age. [/quote]

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