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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It all makes sense and the OP has pretty much summed up why certain people are stand-offish and don’t want to engage in this area. This stand-offish demeanor can be viewed as coldness, but after experiencing your fill of what OP is describing I see it and have seen it for some time and it is very sad. No matter what walk of life you come from you have to be very careful how you treat others. We all have challenges at some point or another and you don’t know what the future holds. The same people you mistreated could be the ones to help you. Their kids could be the ones that comfort and lift your kids up one day.

When my family and I first came to the area, I came with an authentically welcoming and bubbly attitude, I remember not being totally shocked, but a little surprised on my interactions with moms, specifically. We could be helping each other and forming more of a collaborative community, but instead we disparage and gossip about one another, always looking to jab and hurt the other person. Smile at another woman today, say something positive and encouraging. Make today Lift Each Other Up Day. Can we do that one day? A day without all the baggage…this is coming from an alley cat (it’s a metaphor), I don’t play games especially about my kids and my man, but I try to do this when I can and will do my best, no one is perfect. ❤️[/quote]

Your school or community group of women gets together to disparage and gossip about other women!?  They sound like total losers with too much time doing nothing.

Guess I easily avoided these groups or types since 2009 living in NW DC, Bethesdas, 3 different jobs, and kids in two different private schools.

Just do your thing Op and don’t look back! [/quote]

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