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[quote=Anonymous]I went through an exercise mentally of what was important to me, what was important to the kids and what absolutely had to get done. It was illuminating to me. I take full responsibility for what is important to me, we talked a lot about what was important to the kids and how to split and I offloaded a TON of things that needed to get done. I rinsed my hands of so many things that weren’t important to me. But it takes a lot of maturity and lack of defensiveness to have this kind of conversation- but totally worth it on my end. I feel much less pressure from the mental load because I kept the things that were important to me and divvied up the others. [/quote]
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