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[quote=Anonymous]Agree w most of what’s posted here— 
#1 problem is pic with niece.

#2 is the height requirement. Think of it this way: I am 5’6” and my husband is 6’0”. But a 6 inch height difference is already a bigger percentage difference to you than to me relative to your height, yet you’re not willing to consider someone who is “only” 5’6”. It’s pretty ridiculous.

The “MUST BE OPEN TO HAVING CHILDREN” thing is too in your face. That’s something you can figure out several dates in. “Oh your nephew is so cute!…have you ever thought about having kids?” Etc

Also OP you should know that when filtering as you have for the highly-educated UMC DCUMish cohort, you are not slim. In this set, 118lbs is more like the average weight for a 5’4-5’5” woman, pre-kids.

Make sure there is something distinctive about your looks. The photos are small on a phone and you have 0.4 seconds to make an impression. Distinctive attractive features are more likely to stand out and be memorable. I like other PPs suggestions about professional photos. Wear flattering, beautiful clothes.

Personally I would not get rid of the college-educated requirement. [/quote]

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