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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I am just one (there are multiple) posters arguing with you (I'm sure you'd like to think it's just one absent father but I'm a woman and at least some other posters have identified as women as well).

Of course a dad can fight a mom in court for custody. Do you have any idea how much time that can take? It's like you think the dad just calls the court at 2 pm when mom doesn't drop the kids off and by 2:30 he has them. That's not how it works. Some people abuse the system and don't comply with orders. Your black and white way of thinking is unhelpful but just goes to show how small-minded you are. Keep on preaching like you're some sort of feminist and won't apologize for men's bad behavior. No one arguing with you is doing that either. We're just saying you seem to have little grasp on what the world is really like.

Well kids are minors until they are 18. If you stop any time before that, you have given up on your children. That's no one elses fault.

Is your bf or dh one of these loser dead beats or something? Your rabid assertation that men can do nothing wrong and it's always a womans fault is getting bizarre.
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NP and a woman.  I don't think the poster who replied is making any rabid assertions and agree that you seem to be extremely uninformed about how legal challenges work in divorce and custody cases.  It can take YEARS of a parent going back to court for contempt filings before anything actually happens.  I have witnessed the process with my old neighbor and it's brutal - custody, child support, etc. has all been drawn out for years.[/quote]
Uninformed, hardly. You just dont like to accept reality.

Yes, it can take years. Aren't your children worth that? If you have children, go look them in the eye, and tell them how long it would take for you to give up on them. If your love is conditional, you are not a good parent. Full stop. [/quote]

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