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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes you can have a kid on your own but depriving that kid of a mom or a dad is a selfish decision. [/quote]
Something like 25% of kids are being raised without a father. I hope you admonish every dead beat loser who puts a check in the mail instead of being a father. [/quote]

I hope you admonish every evil loser who denies her ex husband access to his kids just to spite him.[/quote]

Yeah! Between that and stopping all incarcerations the last 15 years the Baby Daddy’s are bound to do some high quality, time intensive parenting and spousing. Yeah!

Oh wait. You said “access to their kids.” So it’s all about him again.  He wants on demand “access to his kids.” Which as we all know has nothing to do with caring for the kids or parenting the kids. Jsut an ego check the box thing, and the sitter, or his mom, or the new side piece can handle the pizza and screen time.

Access to the kids.

Somehow in someone’s pea brain that equates to being a real dad and needing a divorce court to finally force parenting time. Now only if actual parenting happened then…. [/quote] to

Your attitude is a.large part of the problem.  If a father's access to his children is discounted as illegitimate,  because you insist on arbitrary hurdles to that access, you are disincentivizing the father from participating in the family life in a way which you claim to want.

It's called shooting yourself in the foot.  Maybe you should stop doing that.[/quote]

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