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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know. I'm not sure that a grown woman who plans a birthday party for herself so far out that people have no way to make excuses and have to commit to a lavish party (with a band, no less) months in advance--then when that doesn't work out, then requires family members to commit (again, months in advance) to yet anothe weekend in her honor, is any less narcissistic than the BIL here.[/quote] 
If you cannot see the difference between these 2 situations then I have to question your mental competence.[/quote]

DP. I see the difference and think a birthday, even a milestone birthday, is less important than a wedding, even a second one. [/quote]
If the couple was so determined to have family at the wedding they should have given more notice. They planned solely according to their convenience. Others don’t have to jump to their tunes.[/quote]

+1 it was very important to me to have extended family at my wedding. We have family scattered across the country and in other countries. We provided almost a year of notice, once we booked the venue we shared the date. People who want others' attendance plan enough in advance to make that feasible, especially when there are no extenuating circumstances. Nothing about this is novel or complicated.[/quote]

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