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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a twist on this thread. How about clueless house guests? I’m hosting SIL and she arrived over the weekend for an 8 day stay. We have had numerous discussions and conflicts in the past about how disruptive her visits are to the kids sleep. Both kids have sleep disorders and my biggest stressor in life is getting my youngest to sleep and ensuring she gets the maximum sleep possible. My husband and I were looking forward to sleeping in Saturday morning (only day for the next week) and was woken up at 6:40am to giggling and screaming laughter from SIL and daughter together in the next room. SIL seemed confused when husband went in and asked them to be quiet and asking why daughter was awake. My son woke up moments later. I couldn’t fall asleep after that. Daughter was up almost 2 hours earlier than a normal Saturday. And his family wonders why visits are so exhausting! [/quote]

How old are your kids that you expect them to sleep until 9am or later? 6:40 is a typical waking time for young kids and it sounds like they were staying in their room. I’d be interested to hear your SILs take on this visit. [/quote]

All three of my kids are professional sleepers at 5, 7, 9. If we let them they'll sleep until 10 every morning.[/quote]

Then you do not provide age appropriate bedtimes. This does make your poor children good sleepers. It makes them chronically exhausted. Good sleepers sleep 7/8pm to 7/8am. [/quote]

Umm, the exact times that people go to sleep and wake up do not matter in the least. The amount of time spent asleep matters, but the times of falling asleep and waking up are unimportant. 
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No, but the kids can't sleep until 10 a.m. since they have to be in school.  So, the parents are giving their children a sleep deficit by allowing them to stay up late.

And you need to examine the research on sleep times.  Humans have evolved circadian rhythms to go with natural light.  Your assertion that sleep/wake times do not matter is absolutely not true. [/quote]

NP whose elementary kid goes to bed at 8:30 p.m., but who is here to tell you to shut up and go take a nap, because you are obnoxious. [/quote]

I was a NP also, but just like for any other post on DCUM, if someone posts something that is false, I will respond.  Sorry.  And I don't need a nap because I go to bed at a reasonable time.   :lol: [/quote]

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