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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There's a hilarious facebook group called something like "single mom is not a coupon code."  People post screen grabs of all the women who are asking for a business referral or wanting to buy used stuff on marketplace, always throwing out the fact that they "need help" because they're a single mom.

So in other words, because you were a ho when single, or because you did a crap job choosing a mate and your marriage failed, the rest of us somehow owe you a discount.[/quote]

Nice.  So we are just going full misogyny.[/quote]

Yes, that’s right.  Any criticism of any woman anywhere for anything is misogyny.[/quote]

Calling single moms ho's and saying they are the sole reason a marriage failed is....yes....misogyny.  [/quote]

No it's not.  A person's history of failures says a lot about who they are.   Some people seriously just have bad luck.  Other people make bad choices.  Totally apples and oranges.

I once came across a "solos" single adult support group and it was advertised as supporting people who had been "widowed or divorced".  I didn't really like the idea of lumping widows in with divorcees.  I consider that to be very insulting to widows.

Life's losers often throw around the word "judgmental" and hide behind it as a shield to all critiques.   True, it's not appropriate to judge in a way that says "I'm inherently a better person than you", but it is appropriate and important to go through life using discernment.

Picture it like a Venn diagram.  Not all people in a bad situation (work, home, financial, etc.) are self-destructive duds.  HOWEVER, all self-destructive duds like to hide behind the shield of moral relativism to make themselves out to be the victim rather than the root cause of their failures. [/quote]

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