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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like it’s all part of this weirdness.

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Sounds good on paper but leads to heartache for a lot of women. It’s becoming a status symbol to have tons of kids. To do that you need to start earlier.[/quote]

It could be rewarding, but it's also pretty high risk. I have a friend, educated and smart, who got married right out of college and had 5 kids by 30 who sounded a lot like OP, convinced she knew all there was to know about life. It's been humbling to divorce at 35, try to restart a career that never really took off, and try to get back into the dating world. If you think a 30 year old single is bringing baggage into a relationship think about what the above is like on the dating market late 30s. Bleak.[/quote]

I also have a friend who married right out of college, had four kids by 30, and divorced by 35.  She married what seemed like the perfect guy from a family within her religion, and there was no divorce in either family.  It was so unexpected.  She has no time or interest in dating as she's barely keeping afloat between parenting and work.  [/quote]

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