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Someone tried just above but the message didn't get through so I'll shout it: [b]THIS THREAD IS SIX YEARS OLD. IT IS FROM 2018.[/b] I have no idea how people dig up and resurrect these very old threads. Got a spouse who has issues? Please start a new thread.

Though I'd like to hear if that OP did divorce. The kid is old enough now to be OK with a dad who can't feed them or dose their vital meds accurately.[/quote]

This 2018 thread is helpful because it dovetails to yesterday’s thread on “unorganized and defunct” adhd and asd spouses.

They shouldn’t marry and they def shouldnt have kids.

[b]Just divorce when you can come up for air. Y’all are drowning by him[/b].[/quote]

The OP of this thread couldn't divorce for a least five years (a time whicih now has passed) because she didn't want her DH to have any custody, since he was incapable of dosing their child's medication correctly (if at all). He couldn't even remember to feed their child. I really feel terrible for parents who are stuck in marriages they want to leave, and need to leave for their own sanity, but who are staying put because the other parent would genuinely endanger children's health and safety if they were in that parent's solo care, even for a short time. It's insane.

And judges will NOT care if a spouse has "documented" all the times the other parent forgot to feed the kid, forgot to give medicine, forgot to pick up at preschool, etc. etc. No one should rely on the idea that any judge will listen to those complaints and give the higher-functioning parent sole physical custody. People here who say, just divorce, have no real idea how judges are simply not going to hand over full custody to the parent who wants it---even if the other parent is utterly useless with caring for the child. Even abusive parents are not always denied custody.[/quote]

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