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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

The suggestions in this thread are killing what little hope I have. They all boil down to re-raising this man-child and sending him to therapy/treatment while I continue to slave, in the hopes he may be remotely useful one day. And that is even assuming I can convince him he needs help. All of this is a huge ask and not feasible in our current lives.

I know the “right” thing to say here is that I am going to spend what little free time I have helping him get better, but I can’t do this. I cannot parent this helpless adult. I have carried him for almost a decade now and am out of patience and love. I am angry and tired and wish I had never met him. It is simply not fair to ask women (who would ask this of a man?) to take on so much.

I have about [b]5 years to go until DD is old enough to take care of herself in a shared custody scenario[/b]. In the meantime, I am ready to give up on him and cheat to get by.

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This right here is the kicker. I'm sorry, OP. I know you got a lot of hate on this thread, but I understand. My husband isn't as incapable as yours, but there are times when I think that if I died, my daughter would suffer so badly in his care. Virtual hugs from someone who gets it.[/quote]

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