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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I cold die right now. I asked my husband to turn off the water to the fridge. He said that he did it. I see more leaking, then I went to the basement and find that the valve is partly turned off. It wasn't done, wooden floor and cabinets ruined. All I can assume is stupid or spiteful. Either way, I don't want sex with him ever. [/quote]

You really shouldn't be speaking this way about your spouse.  The words we choose will speak hate and death into our lives, or can speak life an hope.  You and your husband are a family and a team, and you would do well to start having conversations with him about these things and not telling strangers on here in ways that put another person down.  None of us are perfect examples of humanity.  And none of us are in a position to judge others honestly and fully.  Your children are going to form relationships based on the examples they see, and the most prominent is yourself and your husband.

Where I work, in a technical environment, failures like this dont end up in firing someone, its "attention to detail training" that is required.  He is going to respond much better when you engage and challenge him men are problem solvers generally by nature.  Guess what....you may have to do some leadership development.

There's just so much pessimism.  If he is not abusive, adulterous, mentally ill, or some other genuinely disqualifying factor, its in everybodys best interest that you give him the benefit of the doubt, and that can start with thoughts and words that speak hope and life into the situation, and not wrath and impatience.

I wish you blessings and peace.[/quote]

Funny how you decide what is abuse. Abuse isn't always yelling. These women are experiencing abuse. [/quote]

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