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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are entirely wrong.

You are misrepresenting who you are by offering to pay. Setting a trap really.

I, for example, am offended by a man who insists on paying. He is not respecting my autonomy in such matters, right off the bat. So they can only win by taking you at face value. Believing that you are being authentic.

(Some feminists would feel his is imposing 
his world view by making her beholding to him.)

You are a game player, and he dodged a bullet. [/quote]

It’s nothing to do with you autonomy, it’s a general principal the one who invited pays. Most men just say - no worries it’s on me since I’m invited. You can take the next one [/quote]

Then don’t offer. That is my objection. You don’t mean it. Adults should not set traps for each other. It is adversarial, though you claim to seek a generous person.

And it sounds like you would not mind a man saying, “ you get the next one.” Yet you won’t pay for a man’s food in public (???). Inscrutable. [/quote]

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