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Reply to "How to get through to DH that doing 80% doesn't count?"
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[quote=Anonymous]There's a book called "this is how your marriage ends" that hits on this issue. In the author's case, he's the 80 percenter who leaves dirty dishes out. Or probably less than 80 percent. He explains how he was completely oblivious to the fact that all the undone chores were sending the message that he didn't value his wife or respect her opinion that dirty dishes should not be left on the counter. There was a huge disconnect between how he thought about himself (I'm a good person who loves his wife) and how his wife perceived his actions (I don't care enough about my wife to do one simple thing that will make her feel more comfortable in her home). It was helpful to me to read his perspective. Next step is to get my spouse to read it. [/quote]
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