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[quote=Anonymous] [/quote] This was my fear, too: XDH's awful behavior working on the kids without me to protect them. Perhaps you can count down the days until your kids go off to college and you can divorce. I stuck it out until DD was in college and DS was a junior in HS. At which point XDH asked for a divorce (not me, I was waiting until DS was also safely in college). But come to find that DS saw right through XDH and chose to live with me full-time for the rest of his high school. I guess my point is, there's an end in sight, even though it might be five or a dozen years away.[/quote] This is me. I am counting down the years. I am trying to stick it out until kids are able to drive. I believe they will want to stay with me full-time too, and I don't want the courts to mandate 50/50 without me being there for them. I am detached from DH at this point. [/quote]
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