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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][twitter][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m around the same age as OP and his wife. I’m 5 pounds heavier than my pre pregnancy weight of 125 so I have gained 5 pounds in 15 years and having 3 children.

Pretty sure Dh feels similarly to me. He is softer but he will probably feel he is not that attracted to me anymore.[/quote]

Congrats? Trying being pregnant 10 times in a decade. Hint, I have far fewer than 10 children. I've been pregnant or on fertility med for the last 3 years straight.[/quote]

I don’t even understand what the PP you are responding to is saying. They gained 5 pounds and are “softer” so he is not that attracted to her anymore? Uh, ok. I would have said - congratulations for marrying someone so superficial. Don’t think most guys are complaining about 5 pounds and natural aging.[/quote]

We have no idea what the OP is complaining about.  He just says that his wife gained weight and appears “frumpy” and that she regularly exercises.

It’s probably more than 5 pounds, but it could easily be that she gained 15 pounds, doesn’t dress sexy or wear makeup, and is going grey.  
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He already said it was 70 pounds. [/quote]

Birthing a human takes a hellacious toll on the body. [/quote]
Not a 70lb toll. You shouldn't gain more than 30lbs when pregnant and most of that is baby+. Yes hormones and all that, but birthing children does not cause a 70lb weight gain.[/quote]

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