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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My kid wants sugary dessert every night. That’s not healthy either. People piling on OP for restricting sweets aren’t being entirely realistic. She wants to teach good habits. Letting her kid eat dessert every day is not going to lead her son to not being obsessed with sugar. [/quote]

There’s nothing wrong with a bit of dessert every day. I am naturally thin and have a sweet tooth. My kids are also thin/athletic. They like a little treat after dinner which doesn’t mean huge bowls of ice cream, but maybe a little cup of rice pudding or a handful of gummy bears or a little bit of fruit sorbet. We find ways to reasonably satisfy the sweet craving instead of winding up with kids spending allowance money on Oreos and then crushing a bag in 24 hours. Sugar is nbd to my kids, they will even pass up cake at birthday parties if they’re not hungry.

But having dessert is part of a bigger picture of meal times. From a young age we’ve talked about listening to hunger cues, eating enough protein, enjoying foods in moderation, eating a variety of foods, etc. Meals and snacks are eaten at the kitchen table. They don’t just mindlessly wander the house shoving food in their face. They also are really good water drinks — sometimes hunger is actually thirst, so they know to drink during the day.

My parents gave me a lot of leeway with food growing up and I’m still a size 2 in my 40s after having 3 babies. Better to help kids learn food autonomy early on so they can balance food intake as an adult. [/quote]

I hate posts like this[/quote]

Not that pp but posted a few times on this thread.

We are a thin, active and healthy family. My three kids all play sports. I have tween and teen boys and they eat a ton. They eat steaks, chipotle, pizza, chips and cake. We are not a big cookie family but they will eat a lot of other food.

I think when kids are deprived of something, it makes them want it more. This happens especially in college when kids have freedom after having controlling parents. [/quote]

To be clear, I hate it because the poster describes herself as "naturally thin" with "thin/athletic" kids who have not been deprived from dessert or sugar, but [b]I could make an Almond Mom found poem from the restrictive subtext[/b]. Hunger is actually thirst! Don't wander around the house shoving food in your face! No huge bowls of ice cream, have some fruit sorbet instead! Do you really need that birthday cake? If I was a size 2 after three babies, you can be too! I don't see it as different from what everyone is piling on the OP for.
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I’m the poster you seem to hate so much and I’m laughing at the idea of me being an almond mom. My kids definitely eat chips, ice cream, etc. and we order pizza every week. I’m nowhere near an almond mom.

My point had been to counter a PP who claimed that kids shouldn’t have dessert every night. I was saying I think you can have some sugar every night and still have a healthy diet overall.

And I think it’s so weird that talking about hunger cues and thirst etc. is considered “disordered eating” by other posters. I don’t understand why anyone wouldn’t talk to their kids about how their bodies work? We don’t have “good” or “bad” foods in our house, but we do talk about what your body gets from different types of food and why it’s important to eat a variety. Sorry if that is considered weird! [/quote]

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