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[quote=Anonymous]Many likely were not taught to save. That is not a character flaw, but it is an obstacle. My DH and I were not taught this either, but being married and working together we have improved our financial literacy over decades and are lucky to have DCUM UMC salaries. We are terrible savers, but if we can automate and never see the money that works for us. I think the “pay yourself first”, meaning savings, mentality is great but hard for many people who don’t think long term to execute. This is not something taught in school or society. People do not talk about money and people don’t like feeling as if they do not make as much as their friends and neighbors. It is hard for many to say “I cannot afford that” because of shame. It is easier to live on a salary of $150K than to have a salary of $300K and live on a salary of $150K. Those that are better at savings appear to balance the pain of frugality with the joy of experiencing superiority. People feel bad that private college is expensive and they cannot afford to give that to their children. College is crazy expensive. There are less expensive options. Our children will be better off for not getting everything they want.[/quote]
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