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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I struggle with this too. My DH is divorcing me because I have lost interest in sex. I am trying to figure out how we will tell our two teenagers why we are splitting up. They don’t know yet. It is the only reason we are breaking up. We’ve tried to make it work but he has very unrealistic sexual demands that I can’t accommodate. And yes he has changed over the years. He was not as demanding in the early years. I sometimes wonder if porn is the reason because he’s become more and more aggressive with what he wants and needs sexually. I have to leave. [/quote]

What are you considering unreasonable?[/quote]

I don’t want to hijack this thread and also don’t want to be explicit. It’s subtle stuff but it adds up. It’s like he wants to push my limits. [/quote]
You can still say it without being explicit [/quote]

Ok. Sex on demand and no excuses. Ever. . Forcing me to sleep fully naked. .  Even a tank top and panties not allowed. Sex only with lights on. Anal.   69.     Forcing me to watch porn. Should I keep going…..? [/quote]

"Forcing"... or what? None of these things seem particularly damaging or unmanageable to me, unless you're doing them at threat of violence or some other heavy consequence. You mentioned this is the only reason you are breaking up, and I don't see anything here as a dealbreaker unless you really are being forced in some way. What happens if you say no, or offer compromise? [/quote]

Not a dealbreaker. ?!?!?  So I should be sodomized as a compromise ? To keep the marriage together ??? [/quote]

That's not happening. Requesting anal isn't sodomizing someone. And pp's "he gets whiny/pouts" comment clearly indicates they weren't forced/sodomized.

Have a nice cup of tea, dear.[/quote]

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