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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To the people who say that the odds are that a child isn't going to be molested when unaccompanied in a locker room. The odds are that you can swim in an outdoor pool while holding a metal rod in your hands and not be struck by lightning. The odds are that you can drive your car without wearing your seat belt and still live. The odds are you can ride a motorcycle without wearing a helmet and still live. But would you really want to do those things? Better safe than sorry! [/quote]

To evaluate risk you need to understand how likely something is. You, or another pp, keep saying there is a 1 in 100 chance of a kid changing in the men's room being molested.  In 2011 there were 26 people who died being struck by lightening. There were no reports of kids molested while changing in pool locker rooms while their moms waited outside. [/quote]

How do you know that there weren't any cases of a child being molested while a mother waited outside? Really, how do you know that? Are you God? Fact, you don't know that. Also a fact, there have indeed been cases of children being molested or killed while a mother waited outside. Don't believe that? Look it up. It's been reported on reputable news shows.

But some of you think it's preferable that a child be harmed than to have the child see your daughters "boobies" for a second. Because we all know how harmful it is to see a pair of breasts.   :roll:

Maybe there are some Jerry Sandusky's lurking on here that want to make sure that little boys are still sent into men's locker rooms?[/quote]

Sandusky molested boys who were between 10 and 15. Are you going to let your son go in the locker room at 15? [/quote]

Up to 10, yes. Up to 15, no. A 15 year old is much better equipped to fight off someone than an 8 or 10 year old boy. My 15 year old daughter is just as strong as I am, and she's a girl, not a 15 year old boy.[/quote]

I am (sadly) imagining this mom preparing her son to run the gauntlet of molesters that she believes are waiting for him in the men's locker room. "Son, you must be strong, you must fight hard. It is a room of men all of whom want to attack you, to abuse you, to harm you. Kick, punch, fight..and you will make it out the other side. You can't attempt this for many more yours young grasshopper as you must build strength to fight the enemy that awaits you there."

It is also bizarre that she thinks that all the other men who simply sit as spectators watching as men grab and molest her son and that it is only he son's brute strength that can save him.

Her hatred of men and her skewed perspective on life are so damaging for this poor kid. Imagine growing up knowing your mom thinks you are destined to be a pedophile who can't be trusted to not harm children should they wander within your reach in a public space with others around.[/quote]

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