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Reply to "Please pray - 8 year old DD rushed to ER with sepsis."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I agree with all the PPs who are explaining how well you did to catch it and why you should feel no guilt. But also recognize that this has also been a traumatic situation for you. It is completely normal for your brain to want to replay and re-examine what happened and figure out how it could have been avoided. That’s a thing brains do. I’m not surprised if this may be playing a bit of a loop for you. Try to just recognize that’s your brain trying to process and don’t beat yourself up for it. Explain to your brain it’s doing a very good job to try and keep your family safe, but you don’t need it to keep doing it. It should get easier with time and as your daughter gets better. Thinking of you all today. What a road this has been for you all. We will continue to be here for you. [/quote] Are you a therapist? You sound like a good one :) Please let go of the guilt. It's so hard to balance being worried and over worried--we can't rush to the ER every time our kid isn't healthy; so we have to guess. You did exactly the right thing. Guilt won't help you or your dd. Sending hugs [/quote]
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