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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was the adult in this situation, whose parents divorced over an affair.  My dad's family chose to welcome his AP with open arms - this, after my parents had been married for decades.  That forever changed my view of my dad's side of the family.  It also left me and my sister without support we really could have used.

So, yeah.  F*** around and find out.[/quote]

This isn’t an example of that though.

Your dad f***ed around and you and your sister found out his family doesn’t care about you.

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This is exactly the situation OP is asking about. Should their family welcome the AP and her children to thanksgiving to the mental detriment of the bio grandkids or should they respect that their bio grandkids are still hurting and processing things and therefore not welcome the AP with open arms. I 100% know in my family the grandkids would be chosen over some side piece and their offspring. [/quote]

PP is pointing out that the phrase "eff around and find out" is being used inappropriately. Not that the example is irrelevant.[/quote]

PP is being both pedantic and cruel. I shouldn’t be surprised by that anymore on this forum, but am.

I appreciate the others who understood the relevance of the example.[/quote]

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