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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry, he’s made between 1-4 million in the last five years, you have 1 car, 2 kids not yet in school, don’t travel, and you don’t have millionS in savings??? Don’t you invest?

You should be set for life. What are you spending money on? Drugs?

I call fake on this.[/quote]

OP here - of course we have millions in savings.  That is what we are doing with our money - saving it.  Like I said in a previous post, it doesn’t feel like anything will be a safe amount or give my family security due to how I grew up.  I realize that rationally that is an out of touch thing to say.  Sorry I’m not fake, or trying to be a jerk.  It is something I am struggling with, like it or not.     [/quote]

I say this with kindness, but have you considered therapy to work through some of this?[/quote]

100% but I can’t bring myself to actually do it because there are people working through real issues with their therapists - abuse, addiction, mental illness - I imagine talking about my problems and sounding like such a whiner.  Maybe I should get over that though. [/quote]

Therapists are very good with what they call "the worried well." They can probably help you very quickly, they are very good when you are at a decision point. They can help
You understand why you make the sorts of decisions that you do. I think yours might be easily resolved and give you some peace of mind as you move [/quote]

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