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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The thrill of the chase. Sometimes that is more fun than the actual affair. I am a 41 year old woman. A 33 year old married man with two young children a few months ago started to send me signals. He was good looking and I was flattered but I warned him from the beginning that I could be very manipulative. I also advised him that he should be thinking about what he would be doing to his family. But young, naive man did not take the warning so I had some fun. I must say he wasn't the first man to underestimate me. Men do it all the time and I use my looks and charm to my advantage in business negotiations, meetings, etc. Men are often so easy to manipulate if you look sexy enough but not slutty. Also, when you play someone, don't verge too far from the truth. Stick as close as possible but maybe not tell the whole story. Also, when manipulating someone, let them do most of the talking. You'll find tidbits of info. you may be able to use later. It was a good stroke to my ego to have this man puppy salivating over me. I pretended to have a change of heart and let him pursue me thinking he was winning me over. He never even realized that I was controlling the strings because he thought he was seducing me. In the end, I did not follow through with the affair. I just wanted to send a warning lesson and get him sexually frustrated. It did cause some problems in his job and hopefully he won't do it again. The best part, he can't blame me for his problems. I also had fun. [/quote] I suggest that you reread what you've written and think about how your words come across to others. Stupidity, outrage, vanity, cruelty, iniquity, bad faith, falsehood - we fail to see the whole array when it is facing in the same direction as we. Jean Rostand http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/vanity_3.html#vkhHj2ep05GW1cHR.99[/quote] I have no problems with what I did and wrote. He was the one who was prowling for an affair and I warned him up front in the beginning. In my opinion, he deserved what he got. [/quote]
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