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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][vimeo][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you are a bad host.  You obviously refuse to take responsibility as to why your MIL feels compelled to offer guests food.  BECAUSE THEY ARE STARVING!!!!!!!!!!!@[/quote]

You really need to take some medication.  No one is starving at 3pm and requires wine and snacks. But go on with your crazy self. It’s amusing. [/quote]

You're gaslighting.  This hostess needs the meds for her severe OCD and rigid meal restrictions.  [/quote]

I’m gaslighting someone who posted in all caps that at 3pm, people are starving followed by 10 exclamation marks when none of that was true? Really? Yeah, no. Please enlighten us to the post where OP has rigid meal restrictions and where she says no one can eat outside of the regular meal times. What page and time stamp? [/quote]

Un read the OP its right there. Not at 3. Only at 5 when the host will serve those things.[/quote]

OP has also said several times she has an OPEN KITCHEN POLICY.[/quote]

Everyone is welcome to help themselves with the exception of MIL. [/quote]

I’m going to type very slowly for you, in hopes that it will aid you in reading comprehension, since clearly that is an area of struggle for you.

No, you are incorrect.
MIL may get HERSELF food from the open kitchen.
She may not be a ridiculous, insufferable, attention seeking person who loudly takes over and pretends to be the hostess, while “serving” food and wine to other guests which is already planned for its use at another time.
She also may not tell OP that food and drinks exist, and that OP can have them, which OP bought and prepared.

Do you get it now?[/quote]

No because its polite to offer things to others if you are going to the kitchen and are up already. Jesus, the manners are appalling here. If OP was on the ball she would have already done it.[/quote]

That’s not what happened and you know it, but since you’ll continue to double down on your nonsense, I won’t waste any more keystrokes on you.

Now he predictable and say something like “Thank God! Lol!”[/quote]

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