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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hope none of you OP bashers ever complain about anything in your life ever. I guarantee you every single one if you has a better standard of living than 90% of the people on this planet. There is always someone who is worse off than you. if the rule is you can't be sad about anything if you are richer than someone else, don't ever be sad.[/quote]

Tell that to OP[/quote]

You miss the point. By this logic nobody except the poorest person in the world should ever complain or feel sad about anything. If you can't see how ridiculous that is, I can't help you.[/quote]

There's feeling sad, and then there's accepting reality and reframing your options.  OP doesn't seem to be good at the latter part.

People all over the world make do with much less.  Everyone except the richest people in the world has to make trade offs.  OP is not special in that regard.[/quote]

Jfc you must make a terrible friend[/quote]

I don't know why you would say that.  My friends and I have all commiserated with each other throughout life's challenges with houses, kids, marriage, etc.  AND we also help each other see the bright side, look at things from a new perspective, and work through possible options when we have problems. It's what friends do![/quote]

Oh so when your friend has marriage problems, you say, "People all over the world have marriage problems. No marriage is perfect.  You are not special in that regard."

Or are you just an a-hole to people online?[/quote]

Kind of...?  I do think it's important for people not to hold up their marriage to a perfect ideal that may not be realistic.  People are not perfect, they change over time, there are different stressors when kids come into the picture.  Everyone has different strengths, think about what the positives are, and how you can work on the negatives, think about whether staying married is better than getting divorced, etc...

What I don't say: Well if you can't have the perfect fairy-tale marriage, then just give up, you are shut out of the marriage market.[/quote]

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