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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m surprised he included the story about mocking the physically disabled matron at his school. He described her body type and said she didn’t make the boys “horny”. Disgusting. Did I miss any context or nuance or is he really just a run-of-the-mill misogynist? [/quote] Yes, you missed the point of the anecdote. It acknowledges the unkindness in retrospect but said that as a kid he didn’t really think of it in terms of its impact on Pat, that he was trying to make his friends laugh and find a reason himself to laugh when he was still so deep in grief about his mothers death. At the end of the anecdote he notes that even Pat would laugh at him when she turned around and caught him, which he said made him feel good that he could even make the other humorless (in his estimation) Pat laugh. It also acknowledges that, for as strict and harsh as she was with the boys generally, Pat actually was probably a pretty compassionate and empathetic person because she seemed to understand what Harry was going through and laugh with him rather than punishing him, even though she would have been fully within her rights to do so. [/quote] Wow, that's terrible. Is he really so dumb to think Pat was laughing with him while he mocked her. He's missing an empathy button if he can't consider that maybe it wasn't funny to her, but that was her way of protecting herself and getting through interactions with him.[/quote] Read the book. Stop derailing this thread. [/quote]
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