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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh and please explain how I’m supposed to “convince other men to stop raping, assaulting, and murdering at such alarming rates“?

I really want to do this. What should be the first step? Where can I find some criminals to chat with?[/quote]

A good [b]first[/b] step is not posting online about your hurt feelings to people who are worried about their physical safety and that of their children.

A good [b]second[/b] step would be to get trained by or volunteer with a group like this:

https://www.acalltomen.org/

You might even find quite a lot of support for involved male parenting in such a group if you are willing to  shift your focus to the behavior of men and not their perceived victimization.[/quote]

The problem is that I have always been a sensitive man that has opposed toxic masculinity and fought for women. What could be more challenging to the patriarchy than being a SAHD while my wife builds her career? The men you are treating like shit are already in your corner. Focus your hate on something real. Men taking photos at sports games are not the problem and no I will not allow you to malign me for things I have no control over. I will not just keep quiet while you treat me like a sick criminal. Wouldn’t it be far more productive if you could join up with SAHDs to fight a shared enemy rather than treat me like one of the bad people? Nobody wants to be labeled with a group identity that they don't identify with. I thought a woman would understand that.[/quote]

So, you didn’t actually want steps about how to convince other men. You weren’t looking for steps and suggestions. You just wanted to be told you’re amazing.

You’re not amazing. You’re not an ally. You are making women feel unsafe (which is why they’re moving away from you and taking their purses) and you want to be told you’re a victim.[/quote]

I don’t have power over other men. Jesus christ you’re being such a jerk. I also am not responsible for what people think in their own mind so no I don’t “make women feel unsafe” just some of you that hate men. I spend my entire day with SAHMs and they don’t treat me like a criminal. It’s a you thing.[/quote]

You asked for how you could convince other men, said you really wanted to do that,  and then when given concrete suggestions for ways to do so with organizations who even focus on things like involved fatherhood—  you reverted back to your victimhood.

You said women get up and take their purses and move away from you at the mall. Do you think they do that because they think they’re safe in your presence? [/quote]

Go do that when a BiPOV sits down at the mall and your racist roots will be showing. But is okay to be a sexist. Got it![/quote]

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