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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In reference to the other thread where it was concluded that the good guys with the potential to make good money are always paired up very early in life- in college or before. This makes me feel major FOMO because in high school and college, I had 0 idea what a “marriage material” guy was and how to identify them. But I had a roomate, I recall, who had been dating her engineer bf since hs. They were monogamous throughout college and he went to an Ivy League across the country. They already had it all mapped out. What jobs they were going to do; how many kids they would have.

How did she know so early what’s a good guy? And how to keep him?

I was so clueless and only now in my thirties am remembering the things she said about marriage and husbands.

Who teaches these girls? How they know? What do they know? [/quote]

Funny that I was just having a similar discussion with my high school son the other day about this topic.  He was telling me most of the girls he knows seem to be attracted to jerky guys who don't treat them that well.  My DS isn't a saint, and definitely isn't a doormat.  Enjoys music, playing tennis and cross country, and can be a bit "cerebral" when it comes to philosophical discussions.  He also isn't big on social media and prefer to talk to people rather than hang on the phone all day.  I think girls think he's an odd ball for not having an instagram account or not being on snapchat.  He does not even swear.  For me, he's a great guy -- funny, athletic, enjoys cooking and probably on the nerdy side when it comes to academics.  Yet, it seems like girls only see him as friends and nothing outside of that at this point.  I tried to explain to him that he's growing into a great human being, but that sometimes girls don't appreciate people like him until they are older.  He tells me that I'm his mom and that I'm supposed to say nice things to boost his confidence.

I think women can be kinda dumb.  We chase the bad boys and then wonder why they treat us so poorly.[/quote]

Yikes. Please don’t raise your son to be one of those “nice” guys who gets mad when girls choose others over him. That does not make them dumb.

Also I would be bet that there are girls who have crushes on  your son, but they aren’t hot enough for him to give him a second glance. He is probably a 6 and is put out that the girls in the 8-10 range aren’t interested. Guys who are like this are so obnoxious and sometimes become incels, so please make sure this isn’t where he is coming from. [/quote]

Pp’s kid is way too beta and probably gunning for Stacies.

He needs to gain “abundance mentality” by first shooting for 4-5’s, get some experience, hit the gym, stop cross country if he isn’t going d1 for it (does not build an attractive male physique), pick up a team sport (telling that both the sports are individual) on the side.

Boys/guys like this think that’s because they are slim/lithe themselves that they can have slim/lithe girls in 2022.

This isn’t europe. It isn’t even the 80s or 90s in the us. You have to be top tier to get a thin woman due to supply/demand.

Dating in the us is one of the hardest markets on the planet. This isn’t Spain where the median person is attractive so you can kinda coast.

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This is one of the dumbest posts I've read on this site.[/quote]

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