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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]SIL and BIL clearly started thinking of OP’s vaca home as an extended family vaca home. This situation gives OP an Opportunity to reset everyone’s thinking. No more open ended offering, no more filling them in about the OP’s plans for using the house, no more mentioning when the house is vacant, changed codes, and most importantly use your words and say “no, that doesn’t work for us” when they inevitably ask. Boundaries. Set them. And please put up cameras. They are cheap and super effective. [/quote] I think the word you're looking for is "vacay." A "vaca home" is a home for cows. [/quote]
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