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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess I’m lucky because what I wanted is what I got. I was never a big party girl as I was always goal focused be it academics or my career. In my early 20’s I met a great guy who was very much like me but he loved to have a good time and that really made my life better. If I had stayed single until my mId 30’s I’m not sure I would have found his fun spirit so attractive because I might have been too set I’m my ways. 34 years later I’m still very happy with what I got. [/quote]

Similar, but met in mid/late 20s. It was good timing as I do think I would have gotten used to life in a condo with my dog. ;) 
On the other hand, I had already dated a narc/alpha/private school ivy guy who liked me for my appearance  and decided that wasn’t what I wanted as I wanted to be able to make choices, not have status make them for me.  I went with a guy just like OP doesn’t want.  15 years later, I’m happy with our OBX vacations and laid back neighborhood.  I absolutely understand this life isn’t for everyone, but OP ask yourself if you actually want to be trapped by status or if you are truly happier with something else.[/quote]

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