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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m beginning to think OP doesn’t make that much. She just works a lot. Throwing money at the problem would be easy. Instead she is just getting mad at her Dh.

Plus her kid is only 6 months old. Op has probably only been back from maternity leave for 3 months. This is still such an adjustment period.

How do you look and feel? Are you exercising? Do you ever socialize?

Planning anything for Valentine’s Day?

You should really think about why you are so upset at your Dh when he is the one taking care of your child.

Dh earns seven figures. I’m not good at housework. I am sure he thinks the house is a mess everyday. Before Covid, I had both a PT nanny and housekeeper plus I had 2 kids in elementary and 1 in preschool. I outsourced as much housework as I could because I hate doing it. I can’t imagine how pissed I would be if I were OP’s DH. He is not your man servant.

You are this baby’s mother. [/quote]

Did you basically come here to say, I’m mega rich and have tons of help even though I’m a SAHM? Shame on you OP? LOL you cannot make this stuff up.[/quote]

I’m saying I would lose my shit at Dh if he worked late AND he called me to give me tasks to do. Dh doesn’t give me tasks though.

We may be rich now but we used to be dual working parents with student loans. I remember sobbing because I only had one set of pump parts and 2 sheets for our bed only. Baby would spit up or have accidents on our bed often and I wouldn’t have clean sheets to put on the bed. I bought 5 sets of pump parts and probably 3-4 sets of sheets. You can always throw money at the problem.

Even though we can afford clothes, I have a friend who gives me her daughter’s hand me downs. So much is pretty much new and the girl has an incredible amount of items. I think my friend gave me 30 pairs of leggings. I asked her why she had so many and she said laundry stressed her out and she never wanted to run out of pants for her daughter.

OP needs to outsource more and/or buy more stuff so she isn’t in dire need to do laundry or she needs to work less. She should probably do all 3.[/quote]

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