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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This happened to me last year:

I connect with a 55 year old Hispanic widow on OLD. Her photos are decent, and I enjoy texting with her. She asks me out, and suggests the place. We meet for a weekend dinner.

In person she's an old lady looking 55, not a hottie 55. The conversation is decent but toward the end of dinner she tells me she's only been a widow for a year, she isn't ready for dating, her kids made her get on OLD and they created her profile. The bill comes and of course I pay, and I don't think I even got a handshake or a hug on the way to the parking lot. I felt used. I wish women would realize there is another human being on the other size of their free meal transaction.  
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I would just write this one off as a valuable lesson learned.[/quote]

Why would you feel used? Her kids urged her to try OLD. Maybe if she was a 45yo and hot, you would have sympathized with her more. You may have tried to be her friend with possibility of sex or relationship or friendship.[/quote]

Dp So she owes you a hug because you paid?[/quote]

What she owed me was to not ask me out, to not contact me. She wasn't ready or interested in dating, and yet there she was. What I learned--don't meet women who are aggressive in any way, and avoid all widows because they apparently have mental issues. Also she owed me recent photos so I could see she was an old lady. [/quote]

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