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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This happened to me last year:

I connect with a 55 year old Hispanic widow on OLD. Her photos are decent, and I enjoy texting with her. She asks me out, and suggests the place. We meet for a weekend dinner.

In person she's an old lady looking 55, not a hottie 55. The conversation is decent but toward the end of dinner she tells me she's only been a widow for a year, she isn't ready for dating, her kids made her get on OLD and they created her profile. The bill comes and of course I pay, and I don't think I even got a handshake or a hug on the way to the parking lot. I felt used. I wish women would realize there is another human being on the other size of their free meal transaction.  
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Oh stop.  No one wants free food bad enough to sit through an awkward date.  She didn’t use you for food, you just didn’t connect.  [/quote]

THIS. I wish men would stop assuming that a woman is willing to get dressed up, block out her schedule, and commute somewhere just for free food. It's absolutely ridiculous. It would be painful to suffer through a whole dinner with someone you weren't remotely interested in, just to get a free meal.[/quote]

If you will read carefully you'll see she asked me out to dinner. I think she contacted me first on OLD. Lesson learned: if they contact me, or ask me out, or are a widow, avoid! [/quote]

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