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[quote=Anonymous]I think everyone else has pretty much covered the fact that there are ways to be a useful and productive person without earning a paycheck.  So I'd like to point out something that I don't think has been discussed although I haven't read all 18 pages.

Here's something that many don't understand about SAHM.  One big factor for many of us is that our salary was such a small percentage of the household income.  It just doesn't always make sense to go back to work.  When I got pregnat with my first, DH was making $115K and I was making $30K.  So it was kind of a no-brainer considering all the costs of day care, work wardrobe, etc.  BTW, that's not because I was less successful - I was 25 and he was 32.  ten years later and my youngest (3rd) is in half-day K.   It still doesn't make sense for me to return to work.  Not sure if it will next year either.  Even though they will all be in school all day, we will still have the issue of getting them to school (which doesn't start until 8:50), child care after school, what to do all the days that they don't have school, and especially winter/spring/summer breaks.  In my field, part-time or WAH is not an option so it's all or nothing for me.  I stay relevant in my field through volunteer work and networking because someday it will make sense for me to go back to work.

Anyway, my small salary is by no means the only reason I stay home, but it's definitely a factor.  It seems that most working moms have an income that's closer to 50% of the household income, so they really have no choice but to work.  So I certainly don't judge anyone's decision to work.  Even if they can get by on DH's income, I respect their decision and realize that staying home is not for everyone.  [/quote]

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