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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, men are falling behind in every single factor.  It's crazy.  So many men are just completely checking out, giving themselves up to a life of video games, porn, and maybe some low income job to collect a paycheck.  It's extremely sad and concerning.

I think a lot of times women are just tougher.  Females have a much higher infancy survival rate and just seem a lot more capable of handling BS, be it physical, emotional, mental, whatever.  They just kind of... adapt.

There's always been slogans about "women are tougher" but over the stress this country has been in for the past 20 years, we're really seeing it be proven true beyond all doubt.  And there's really nothing anyone can do about it, save maybe banning these things like China has done recently. [/quote]

Yet women are crying on here every day about how to bag a rich guy. Sorry, but plenty of women are losers and users. They work dead end jobs, for crap pay, and then bear the brunt of raising their kids. Not seeing how they are winning by being tough. They seem angry, anxious, bitter and depressed.[/quote]

I think as women give up on that, and realize men aren't really capable of keeping up economically anymore, then youre going to see a lot of those priorities shift.  Besides, men are supposed to be providers, that's what they've been all through history.  And now theyre failing.  And it's REALLY unattractive, and not going to attract any high value female.  Oh well. [/quote]

+1. My sister in law does research as an oncology pharmacist.  Wanted kids, but never found a guy who didn’t want to sponge off her. So, she moved near us, and has been a third parent to my kids. Which has been wonderful all around. My kid are very, very close to her, and as they have gotten older have spent larger and larger parts of each summer with her.  DD spent a significant piece of COVID lockdown with her aunt and said it felt more like living with an awesome roommate than parents. She wrote a colleg essay about her aunt being the person she admires most.

I’m so grateful you SIL has been there for my kids.  She travels our family a lot— we just get an extra bedroom. She travels alone with my kids to cool places as they have gotten older.  She ans I travel out of the country every year (or did until COVID). Her family didn’t work out the way she planned, but she has had very close meaningful relationships with my kids that will last her lifetime. [/quote]

That's awesome.  I'm a young women and more and more young women I know are thinking about sperm banks.  Egg freezing, for a certain high economic subset, is de rigeur.  And of course, there's adoption, or, as in your sister's case, a super close relationship with the younger generation of your family, nieces or nephews or cousins.  It all scratches that itch and is a great solution.  And, IMO, is far preferable than settling for a man that is going to underearn you and also be resentful and angry of that fact. [/quote]

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