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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Omg you are really committed to being an asshole OP. Inviting the youngest sister is a huge mistake and will undoubtedly hurt feelings. I would be SO sad if I were the sister with younger kids. It’s really not fun being left out. [/quote]
This is not kindergarten.[b] Put on your big girl panties [/b]and realize that having 4 kids under the age of 10 means that some things, like a ski vacation meant for experienced skiers, are not a good fit for your family. I really don’t get everyone’s reactions to this. Everyone is an adult and should be over being hurt like elementary school children. Look in the mirror and realize a 5 month old baby, a 4 year old, and 2 other kids under 10 would cramp everyone else’s ski vacation. It’s not like OP is talking about a toddler centric vacation.[/quote]

I hate this expression when used to be mean.  Just because one is an adult doesn't mean your feelings can't be  hurt.  Does op want to fracture her family? If so, proceed and invite the other sister and have a grand old time.  [b]Remember, op asked if people would be hurt [/b]and you would not but, others would be.  It has nothing to do with "big girl pants"[/quote]

This is the crux of it. OP was crowd sourcing to see if they would feel hurt in the exculded sister's shoes. Most people said yes. A few people said no. But none of us know OP's sister, so only the OP is really in the position to know which category she's in.

The fact that OP asked the question in the first place leads me to believe that her sister would, indeed be hurt. But I guess the only way to find out is to have a conversation with her.[/quote]

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