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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]OP, I think part of the problem might be that you and friend discussed and set the schedule, then after the fact ask the cousin. She is probably seething and resentful that she feels already left behind.[/b] You saying the BF is a delight to be with tells me that you are making it clear to cousin, even subconsciously, that you and BF would prefer cousin not being around. I would have a discussion with her. Cousin, for these summers to work, each of us needs to pitch in and carry equal weight. If you just want a vacation away from doing all that every day, then this isn't the place to do it. For next summer to work, the three of us need to come up with a schedule and each of us do our part. [b]I am sure all sorts of resentment will come seething out of her. [/b]Then you need to discuss. If this breaks up the 3 Amigos, it is what it is. But perhaps it can reset the tone moving forward.[/quote] +1[/quote]
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