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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, I never said this in my post about considering firing her. That is outrageous.

I'm asking for advice if this is worth bringing up to my DH??[/quote]

Yes.  He needs a filter.  [b]Talking about someone other than his wife in a sexual way to others is inappropriate/bad judgment.[/b]  Sure, he can find her attractive (after all, she is), but calling her “hot” ups the creep factor.  That’s just not a way a married man should be talking about his nanny, nor is it the way an employer should be talking about his employee.[/quote]

Easy with the pearl clutching Karen.  Like uou’ve never said to a gf/friend “wow, that guy is hot” or “yummy” or something like that?  Never once in your life?  Not ever?   Didn’t think so.

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DP, but actually NO, I have not.  Doesn’t mean I have never thought those things, but I love my husband and wouldn’t disrespect him like that.  This really isn’t hard, people.  Stop being so defensive and accept that if you are married and you are discussing attraction to anyone other than your spouse you are IN THE WRONG.  Just don’t do that.[/quote]

I’m the poster you’re referring to, and no, never once, not ever.  I think it’s disrespectful.  But that’s my opinion.  Should we talk about why, in response to my opinion about a behavior that has absolutely nothing to do with you (unless you are the spouse of the OP), you felt the need to resort to name-calling?  You win more arguments with logic than unkindness.[/quote]

I am the DP and I am just glad there is one other sane person participating in this thread.  Is everyone else on here still in high school or college or something?[/quote]

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