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[quote=Anonymous][quote]But when asked "what do you want in a man" (<-- google that Q) women ignore all that and instead the answer is stuff like "good provider; good communicator; vulnerable; meets my emotional needs; treats me like an equal; caring at heart". Men who focus on THESE things will not do well.[/quote] The issue here is not that women are lying about what they want - people can want those characteristics, but if you're not attracted to someone, you're not. And there's no magic formula to guarantee an attraction, for men or for women. But here's the real issue: if you're cultivating these characteristics SOLELY BECAUSE you think it'll get you laid, that's 1) extremely obvious and 2) ENORMOUSLY offputting. Men who treat kindness, respect and communication like a coin they put in a vending machine and out comes sex -- ugh, I don't care how hot or rich you are. I will not want to f*ck you.[/quote]
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