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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]It never justifies cheating. Never. Health and safety reasons--for your family.

Man up and ask for a divorce. Lying for years and stealing time away from your kids, spending $ on a non-family member is NEVER the way to go.

If they won't go to counseling, or compromise then yes go your separate ways. Never a reason to cheat and bring or bring some nut into your family's life.[/quote]

I am not so sure about this. Honestly, I think I'd prefer my spouse spend 2-3 hours a week or so with someone else (someone safe) and maintain our relatively stable home for our kids than disrupt their lives so badly with divorce, two houses, recrimination, losing faith in your parents/home. I dont think either of us are cheater (although you never know) but I disagree that its "always" better to divorce. I guess I'm more of the DADT camp. [/quote]

I agree with this (woman). [/quote]

Not me.  Why?  We had a healthy sex love and great relationship.  Why would anyone lack self respect and allow somebody to cheat on them?  If you don’t like sex ok.  But, if you were having sex it’s unsafe he’s putting his d@ck in other people unprotected.

Call me traditional  :lol: 
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