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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Once your H cuts you off, I'll give you 2 years or less before you are banging pigs like me[/quote]

A. My DH and I communicate and treat each other with respect, plus we take our vows seriously and have for 25 years, so
B.  Neither of us will cut the other off, and 
C.  I have self-respect and need to live with myself, so I would ask for a divorce before ever cheating, and 
D.  I know better than to associate with narcissistic pigs.[/quote]

Don't be so smug.  No one plans on cutting each other off at the point of marriage, and people show themselves in unpredictable ways after being married for years.  There was a point in my marriage when my DH decided he doesn't want to have sex with me any more.  For 2+ years.  I didn't end up cheating but if I did,[b] I'd feel not a tinge of remorse or threat to my self-respect.[/b] [/quote]

Yes, it's amazing how I felt when I first stepped out.  Like..nothing.  Not a bit of guilt, remorse, regret and certainly no loss of respect.  I'd lost a lot of respect for my W but I don't feel that way anymore.[/quote]

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