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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]My AP loves her H and I love my W. Been cheating going on 2 years and we have it down. On some level I greatly dislike that she has such callous disregard for the situation but I don't take it out on her anymore. I'm a much happier man for once again having a good sex life. She has every reason to be suspicious, knowing I don't, or didn't accept our sexless marriage and knowing that there has been a big change in me for the better recently while at the same time, I've stopped discussing sex with her.now [b]I'm convinced she doesn't want to know and accepts it.[/b][/quote]

I'm convinced you are a narcissistic pig.[/quote]

Agreed. So much entitlement with this guy.  Cheating is the only acceptable solution for him because it’s good for him.  If you’re a jerk, I guess you never have to worry about doing the right thing.  You know, why give women in your life any agency over their life path?  Aren’t women put on earth just to please him?  Just a super jerk.[/quote]She has "agency" over her life path.  She has chosen her life path with no regard for our marriage.  I'm not going to interfere any longer in her chosen path.  She isn't losing anything in this arrangement.  She doesn't want intimacy with me and I no longer bother her about it.  It's all good, really.  Who knows, maybe something will click in her head some day and the switch will be turned back on, the same as it got turned off and we will resume.  I'm not counting on it, but I never saw this coming either so I guess it could happen.  Meanwhile, I know you would wish a sexless life upon me that I would never wish on you.  [b]Or a blown up marriage[/b].  But I'll manage this how I see fit.  I hope it never happens to you.  Any of you.[/quote]

My husband felt the same way (though our marriage still having sex 2-4 times per week 22 years in.  After 3 years I just found out about his old almost 50-year old hag Ashley Madison whore with 2 teen sons.  He's in a crappy AirBnB because I threw him out and he's spiraling out of control.  He is in risk of losing EVERYTHING.

He also thought he could get away with it.  Extremely callous and cocky like you.  I have since found out everything.  I told his mother, his only very close relative/like a brother (his cousin).  All of our friends are mutual, most from me--neighborhood, etc. He is losing everyone around him. He will lose $, he will lose extended family (mine is very tight and does big Holidays).  He will have nobody.  Even his own mother and cousin are disgusted with him right now.

I have a great job. I am the one that has the great health benefits we use as a family.  My greatest wish is that he ends up having to support that stay at home mom whore and then she goes out and f*cks somebody in their bed like she was doing with him.

When I finally get a name, I am going to make her world come crashing down too.  This is the 2nd time she had an Ashley Madison affair with a married man with kids.  Somebody needs to take her *ss down too.

So, buddy, you might think you are craftier than my husband.  He is extremely intelligent, perfect SAT scores,  high up in IT with own business and after 3 years he spiraled and I discovered on synced photo that was accidentally taken (one of those that you didn't actually take bu hit as you were doing something,) that he did not know about.

So I hope you rot in hell for doing this to your wife too. Health risks to her--stds and also safety risks...that woman's husband could find out and come after you, you could eventually snap and end up on your doorstep..  OR she could have a spouse like me that is going to make your life a living h*ll, tell your spouse, tell everyone about you...maybe even get a megaphone and drive up and down her block announcing she's a home-wrecking whore.

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His wife is not having sex with him - why are STDs a factor?

I'm also curious why you think you (who has been having sex with your husband regularly) and this poster's wife (who hasn't touched him for years) are in any way in a comparable situation?[/quote]

Not the poster you were responding to:  the fact that you’re cheating means it’s the same situation as the above lady.  The fact that you’re as arrogant and narcissistic as above lady’s husband means you’re similar.

And before you say it, no the wife may not know that the husband is cheating and so it’s not the right thing to do.[/quote]

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