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Women have to maintain sex frequency/sex enthusiasm/kids/home/social planning/career.  I mean expectations of women are unsustainable.  I mean why should women even try since they’re set up to fail.[/quote]

MEN have to maintain sex frequency/sex enthusiasm/kids/home/social planning/career.  I mean expectations of MEN are unsustainable.  I mean why should MEN even try since they’re set up to fail.

Assuming women are the only ones who do the above is just disgustingly flawed and could only be puked out by a woman.

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When have you remembered to get your kids to the Dentist? [b]Yes - I make all appointments (regular cleanings) for all of our kids[/b]
Do you know where the winter clothes are? [b]Yes - we both just pulled them out last weekend and made sure everything fits[/b]
Which of your kids is allergic to which antribiotic? [b]None - I keep track of all the medical records, remember the health forms for school/camp [/b]
When is the last time you cooked a real dinner that includes the proper number of servings of vegetables? [b]Last night actually - roasted broccoli, grilled salmon over angel hair pasta, tomato and mozzarella and a spinach salad.  I cook 5-6 nights a week.[/b]

If you don't understand the invisible work of women and their mental load....well...I'm not sure there is hope for you and you will remain a hateful angry jerk[/quote]

DH here- stop with the tired refrain already - see my answers to your questions.

Oh, I'm up before 5 am, workout for an hour, get breakfast ready for the kids (DW gets up around 7:15), leave by 7:05 to take our youngest (all our kids are teens) to shuttle stop, in the office by 7:30 and leave usually around 5 to get middle kid from her stop.  Home by 5:30 and cook with dinner served typically by 6:30. I do the regular grocery shopping (and Costco orders) and make 5x as much as my DW (she works from home).  She does plenty so no complaints, but I do plenty as well.[/quote]

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