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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are worried about dating? I would be worried about my kids[/quote] What is the problem if we think about us sometimes? Why we have to be in the end of the priorities’ line after we have a family? How are YOU? Who are YOU? I want to take care of me again. I deserve some attention too. Before I am a mom or a wife, I am me - and I don’t want to forget that.[/quote] If you have kids you should think about them FIRST because they are vulnerable and inexperienced and divorce is a MUCH bigger deal for them than for you. Stop being selfish garbage.[/quote] NP. You really sound like you’re projecting your frustration. Every divorce does not rock a child to its core and make them irreparably dysfunctional in life. Plenty of children are wrecked in “happy” homes. And plenty of children do well with lots of transition, even if it’s tough, if you guilt trip a single mom, so you guilt trip a military parent that isn’t away on rotation or at post, serving your country? Because there are many examples of coparenting that is fine healthily, without drama. With two loving parents, or sometimes just one. Maybe even by choice. So if you aren’t going to judge any other paren that doesn’t fit the husband wife child dog house mold in your mind, it’s hypocritical to slam on divorced women. Are rich, lesbian,, single moms by choice, military moms, teenage moms, mature mothers, or any other type of mother any different when it is all said and done? No. We work with what we have. Stop calling people trash. It isn’t very nice. [/quote]
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